Pain is often treated as inevitable instead of something we can prevent through accountability. We grow up surrounded by stories in which romance is used to excuse harm, loving intensely...
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I get asked the same questions a lot. This is a brief history of not landing softly. I share it for anyone who recognizes parts of themselves here, so you...
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I’ve worked in sex work for nearly two decades, across different formats and contexts. What I’m writing about here is not theoretical. It’s pattern recognition. This essay is not an...
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